These past few months with Sara have been an eye-opener for me as a leader, parent, and partner. There are so many nuggets of wisdom to learn from Sara but the one that I’ve been carrying with me since our very first session is: “Changing how you see people, changes people.”

I'm not going to sugarcoat it—this week's news about Quaker Oats closing its doors in Danville hit hard. Five hundred and ten of our neighbors, friends, and family members are facing the stark reality of losing their jobs in the next two months. It's a gut punch, no doubt about it.

“It’s not always about getting it perfectly right; it’s about getting it going.” This line is like my secret weapon. It's my go-to piece of advice because, well, it's the truth. Let me walk you through a recent reminder I had about this nugget of wisdom.

Back in school, I was sort of a mediocre student. I never quite warmed up to the whole classroom scene, and it showed in my lackluster effort and less-than-stellar report cards….Apparently, I couldn't even spell “did.” She always underscores the difficulty of spelling “did” with; “You could spell it backwards and still get it right, Annie!”

But what happens when, even with perspective, the problem is too big, the conflict is too messy, or the solution is too obscure? The path to resolution is foggy.

“I spoke to one entrepreneur that said, “If I could have any superpower, it would be the ability to not tire. Just think what you could create if you never got tired!?” It is that spirit that is within entrepreneurs that if we could bottle, we would surely save the world.”

“In my fear of taking two steps forward only to take one step back I have overlooked one crucial fact—even when I take two steps forward and one step back—I am still taking one step forward.”

“Kindness is never wasted, and in the face of criticism, it becomes a powerful asset.”

The iconic move from Legally Blonde had junior high me thinking I'd discovered the key to flirting. Fast forward to today, and my admiration for Reese Witherspoon goes beyond the bend and snap. Let's unpack how this pink-suited powerhouse strategically conquered Hollywood.

If you haven’t jumped on the bandwagon yet, Ted Lasso is a show on AppleTV that follows a college football coach that is hired to coach an English soccer team. It’s a set up- he’s sure to be unsuccessful because of his inexperience. But Ted Lasso’s folksy, optimistic leadership turns out to be just what this team needed.

“There isn’t a class you can take (mine or otherwise) that will make you an expert in leadership. It’s a lifetime of trial and error and whether or not you have the self-awareness to acknowledge you’re not likely to become an expert but have the willingness to continue studying anyway.”

The story goes that two men are hiking in the woods and come upon a bear. One man whispers; “We need to run!” The other says, “No! Be still. We can’t outrun this bear.” The first man responds, “I don’t have to outrun the bear—I just have to outrun you.”

I chatted with an old colleague recently and as we swapped war stories it made me reflect on one of our last trips together. It was a short overnight road trip, here in the Midwest, to benchmark a couple of other companies in the manufacturing industry.

Small business owners, artists, craftsmen, and entrepreneurs are, in general, a creative bunch who see opportunity where others don’t. It is what makes them successful. Ask a small business owner that has been in operation more than three years how many businesses they have- my guess: more than one. Its why real estate agents are also property managers. It’s why boutique owners have a brick and mortar and an online shop. It’s why food truck operators also cater. It’s why coaches also consult.

“As it turns out, our kids helped us find a sacred lesson about turning to face the good in life, love, and business. They teach us to seek light and truth. They teach us that growth enhances integrity. They teach us that blooms, while beautiful, can be heavy to carry. They teach us that when we’ve given all that we can to enhance the beauty of the earth, the only thing left to do is plant new seeds and watch them grow.”

I have a new Human Capital client that I will admit is stretching me. This organization is unlike any other with which I have worked. In fact, they are what everyone else says they want to be. When I hear clients talk about organizational culture, community, and inclusiveness it is typically aspirational. At Discovery Horse, it is operational.

When someone says, “leave it at the door,” what they mean instead is, “Suffocate those emotions. Bury them deep, so the rest of us aren’t distracted by your baggage. I do not want to know about your situation because I would be burdened by your emotions and it would be more difficult for me.”

The work you do is important. The work you share with the world is a legacy.

Being fulfilled is worth a lot more than being full.

She realized, “I can do this as a job” and built her client base while working at her other job. “I didn’t set out to be a consultant,” Monyok said. “That happened along the way.”